Best friend dating your cruch
He acted on his feelings about 8 months ago, and she rejected him, which made me very careful in our pre-relationship stage.I spoke to my friend about how my relationship with his former crush was evolving into something bigger, and he assured me that he doesn't mind, doesn't like her anymore, and is not really in the position to say anything.Though you need not drop your best friend, explore the idea of making other meangingful connections.Tell yourself that you are not looking for a person to replace your friend but simply looking for companions who might enjoy the same things as you do.So if you find that your crush likes your best friend, here are a few ways you can deal with the situation.Stay cool Even if you are dying inside to be with your crush, act cool – no making lovey-dovey eyes, giggling in front of him or flirting with her.
Start connecting with other people in your social circle; frequent places like a pub, hobby club or the college cafeteria where are likely to be many people you know and see if anybody would like to go swimming or biking or to a theater with you.
So the only thing to do here is to have a chat with your best friend to find out whether he/she feels the same way about your crush.
If your friend too admits to being attracted to your crush, perhaps it would be wiser to exit the situation since a one-sided love is anyday a poor competitor to mutual attraction.
Good friends are a hard to come by and your best pal shows no hesitation towards being with you, there is no reason why you should ruin a good friendship just because your crush happens to like your friend more than you.
Talk to your friend Unfortunately hiding your real feelings both to your friend and crush, day in and day out can get too stressful.
Cupid’s arrow flies in strange directions – just because a person loves someone doesn’t mean that his/her affections will be returned in the same way.